So long and Thanks for all the fish

This is one thing that movies don't talk about ... inlaws, and the simple like Mother' day.

My inlaws are planning to have a get togther with grandparents and have a big feast on one side of the city and My parents want to have a family feast too, on the other side of the city.

So what do I do?
Who takes the priority ?

And such problem happens with Christmas, fathers day ..etc.

Thank god my parents are not christians, so they are not too pissed off if I don't visit them on Christmas day itself.
Whereas the inlaws, wants their whole family together every year...

Image the havok if we have conflicting birthday parties....yikes!!

What do you do ?
Who decides whose family is more important?

where is the simple life!!